First Me, Then You!

““The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” Proverbs 1:7. 

It is essential for every man to examine himself or prove himself when desiring to provide help to others in the Word of God. It is like the flight attendants instructions to parents before takeoff; if trouble is experienced and cabin pressure is being lost, the parent must place their own mask on first and then secure the mask of the child. Therefore through the Spirit of God, it must be “first me” in humbleness to seek guidance, wisdom, understanding, and empowerment to be used to enlighten others-“then you!” “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” Proverbs 1:7.

We must be confident in our spiritual walk. As new creatures in Christ we have the heart and soul to do whatever God has called us to do. But once again, that also takes the humility to recognize our own weaknesses. It is only by the power of the Holy Spirit that we can walk in the path that He has laid before us-we must be willing to trust Him wholeheartedly. 2 Corinthians 4:7 reminds us that the power of the gospel has been placed in us as weaken vessels in order that His power may be displayed. “But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.”

When we embrace through hope the love that is within us, it provides the spiritual strength that we need to live up to our God given purpose. We must learn to lean and depend on God to work out our own soul salvation, in so doing He gives us peace of mind and strength to utilize the gifts that we are given for His glory. Let us remember that “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.” Philippians 4:13.

Knowing that we are the beloved children of God assures us of innumerous spiritual blessings from on high. Embracing our new life helps us to overcome fear, pain and struggles that we face. This “God-confidence” deters us from blaming others for our own areas of weakness and instead allowing us to grow in the grace and peace of God… being develop into the vessels that He has designed for us to be.

The bible teaches us that we reap what we sow; if we sow spiritual fruit through the guidance and empowerment of the Holy Spirit, we will reap the spiritual blessings and ultimately eternal life that He has prepared for us. When we submit to these spiritual truths we are more equipped to help our brothers and sisters in Christ. Colossians 3:16 admonishes us “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.”

Doing good to and for others, teaching one another in wisdom, truth and humility should be the business of our lives. It should be our hearts desire to bless others wherever and whenever we have the opportunity. So . . .  it’s first me, then you. Let’s choose to walk confident in Jesus Christ our Lord and then help somebody along this Christian journey!

God’s blessings of peace and grace be with us all!

4 Comments

  1. Mitchell on January 29, 2025 at 1:01 pm

    I am always reminded of a song when I read the Word. Today I am reminded of a line in a song,”if I can spread love’s message that the master taught, my living shall not be in vain.”

    • Violetra Ward on January 30, 2025 at 11:09 am

      Amen Mitchell! Then my living won’t be in vain!!! To God be the glory!

  2. Katrina on January 29, 2025 at 4:28 pm

    Loved ❤️ 👆🏿 Ms. Ward. Thank you so much for this morning mana. God’s Word comes to us first, to correct, heal and reveal where necessary to better equip us to share His good news. I’ll definitely be dining on it all day. Grace, Peace, and Favor to you ALL🙏🏿👠💎👠🙏🏿

    • Violetra Ward on January 30, 2025 at 11:08 am

      God blessings to you and your family Katrina! It is truth, God’s word is a light unto our pathway!

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