“See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.” 1 Thessalonians 5:15.

The expression ‘tit for tat’  is an old english term that means responding to someone’s action against you using the same force; in like manner or equivalent retaliation. Some would even say, you get what you give- strike back and give it all you got mentality.

This is a very natural and worldly reaction to dealing with a problem or altercation; but the word of God guides the born-again believer in our actions and thoughts; the apostle Paul in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5:15 admonishing us against the tendency to retaliate. “See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.” 1 Thessalonians 5:15.

But realistically, we all know it is not easy to turn the other cheek…look the other way and think good thoughts when every opposing thought, word, or action of another is coming straight at you! Listen to the words of Proverbs 15:1 “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” Not and easy feat right?

How then does this become possible? So, glad you ask-Romans chapter 8:14 gives us these words of assurance. “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.”  Every born-again believer has been indwelt with the Holy Spirit, He empowers us with the love, grace, forbearance, kindness, tender-heartedness, and forgiveness that leads to live Chirst-like!

The power of God…enables us to make the right choice to  listen, obey, and follow His leading at all times-not as some would say, lay my religion down…that is not from the love of God that lives within us- love goes beyond selfish motives- “Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

So, my friends, we who are Christs’ . . . should never seek a tit for tat to solve conflicts…but looking ever unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith…confident in knowing that we are victorious in Him and able to extend love-even when it is not given.

In and through all things let us seek to give God the glory…the good and the bad- so that others will know us by our love! “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” John 13:35.  

Blessings and peace, remain steadfast in the faith!